Murder

I don't know why this popped into my head the other day. It's definitely the kind of thing that could freak you out though, if you thought too much about it. I personally knew 2 people that have been murdered this year. Not friends. Coworkers. Isn't that awful?! I never thought that in my life, I would actually know anybody that could've been murdered. One was a 52 year old woman, who was shot and killed by her estranged husband. The other was a 34 year man with 3 boys and a brand spankin' new baby girl. He was shot and killed trying to help his ex-wife. 
Sometimes it seems like such an ugly world. 

annoying habits!

Another great list I saw this morning! All about annoying habits. Let's see how much people suck;

* not standing to one side on the escalator
* not holding the door for the person behind you
* not returning your shopping cart
* looking at your phone when you're talking to someone in person - ruh roh
* parking too close to the line in the parking lot - YEAH!!!
* talking at the movies - YEAH!!!
* wearing too much fragrance - holy wow sometimes!
* stopping short while walking - and then I run into you, doofus
* eating loudly
* biking without obeying traffic laws - Aaaagh people! come on!!
* texting while walking - amazing isn't it?
* putting your bag on the seat next to you
* not letting people off the elevator before you get on - I hate that!
* snapping your gum - oops, sorry
* bringing pungent food to work - the only thing worse is burning the popcorn!
* not being ready to order when you get to the counter

There were a lot more but they didn't really seem that offense to me. Like typing in ALL CAPS. Or hitting 'reply all' instead of just, 'reply' Those thing irk me but they aren't usually a habit. There were definitely several terribly rude things on the list though.

Online shopping

What is the cost of online shopping? The cost to you, the cost to the economy, the "human toll."

I wonder what age group does the most online shopping? And who are they buying from? 
You know I'm a fan of Amazon but I don't think Amazon is everything! Of the times I've looked around, I would say that 30% of the time I can find what I want someplace else for less money. When that happens I have to think about it. If it's only a couple dollars, I'll choose Amazon. If it's $5 or $10+, I'll go to the brick and mortar. 
Do you think Amazon ruined business for the brick and mortar stores? Or was it just technology and it was bound to happen? 
My favorite thing about Amazon is the free shipping. I can't tell you how many times I've backed out of an online order because I thought shipping was just too much. I don't really care about 2 day shipping. 90% of the time I choose no rush shipping anyway. And honestly, of the times I've gone w/2 day shipping, (because I really did need it in 2 days) 2 out of 5 times I don't get it on time! It seems though that the majority of the people who shop on Amazon, do it for the 2 day gratification. 
I like online shopping for a lot of reasons. Mostly, I don't like people, so...
I like getting packages, I like not having to get dressed and get in the car, etc. 
I like window shopping too though. Like, I could shop online at Hobby Lobby but it's way more fun to see everything. And I can't buy clothes or shoes online. I think my fella feels the same way about Lowe's and Home Depot. BUT, sometimes he'll go to one of those and then come home and see if he can find it on Amazon for less.
I wonder if I'll like it when Amazon starts using drones to deliver my packages? Whoa! Can you imagine the implications of THAT?!?! 

Getting your way

Remember when I talked about Amazon and Google, not playing in the sandbox together?

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Well, Google Home wants to carry the Amazon Prime Video App for their streaming service. Uh huh. Guess what Amazon said...hmmmm, let me think about it. So Google said, fine, you can have the YouTube app back for your Firestick. So Amazon said, oh ok. Business is so funny sometimes.

We have a mayor that plays like that too. He wanted to build a roundabout at an extremely busy and congested intersection that happened to cover part of the City of Carmel and part of the City of Indianapolis. He told Indianapolis that Carmel would pay for it, 100% and maintain it 100%. But there was this one city council woman in Indianapolis that said, no. She said she wanted a 100% buy in by the surrounding businesses. Well, nothing is going to get a 100% buy in. I don't care how good it is! Anyway, they went back and forth for months and months and months. Finally the mayor said, that's cool, I'm just going to build it 30 feet closer. Now it won't be in Indianapolis at all. So there. I give him a lot of credit for trying to get her on his side. But I really LOVE that he won anyway, without her approval. That was awesome.

Old things

Old things make me smile. Today I was thinking about some of the things I wore in high school;

We put patches on jeans where we didn't need them. We sewed pockets on the inside of our bells to hide our cigarettes ;-)

 We made our own jean skirts out of....old jeans

 And we made purses out of our old jeans.

And the shoes!!

I wore out several pairs of these. They still make them. Man are they uncomfortable now!

We wore these a lot too, from Pier 1, cheap! They came in black or dark red.

Pretty sure I had a pair just like these :-) Shoes were heavy then.

I had THESE!!! Red Frye boots. OMG I loved those boots. 

I also had a pair of these lace up Bass boots!!!

And everybody had these "desert boots"

And these babies? I still have them. These exact boots. I wore them. My brother wore them. They're never going to wear out. I bet they weight 5lbs each.

These are Earth shoes. I never had any though. I thought they were dumb. 

 I had a couple pair of this style, with the cutout in the heel.

I love shoes. I used to have A LOT of shoes! Now I'm old too so I just have flat, comfy shoes. So looking back makes me smile :-)

I had a pair of rainbow toe socks that I wore with my platform sandals from The Merry-Go-Round, along with a red satin blazer. Yep. The 70's were SO fun! 

(Thanks Google Images!)

School rules

I admit, it's been a looooooong time since I was in school or had kids in school, but the rules sure have changed!!!

When I was in school, we weren't allowed to wear shorts. We didn't have cell phones to worry about. We wrote in cursive. And we weren't allowed to smoke on school grounds.

Now, you can wear almost anything to school, even slippers!! I would still say 'no' to shorts. Mostly because it's kind of subjective how short is too short. I smoked in high-school so I don't care about allowing that or not, but it's so funny to me that some schools have smoking lounges for students now! 

Earlier this year I read an article about a high-school in Houston where the principle implemented a dress code for parents! How awesome was that!? A lot of parents were ticked off. Seriously. I say, right on!

Today, I read an article about a school in San Mateo, California that said no smart phones allowed in school. Honestly, I was a little surprised that this wasn't already a rule. How can you teach a class full of teenagers who are looking at their phones most of the time? They took it one step further though, by saying "school" instead of "class." By saying that though, they are forcing them to actually have conversations with their friends during lunch and between classes. I hope it catches on. 

equality

the Oxford dictionary says that gender equality is, the state in which access or rights or opportunities is unaffected by gender.

"Gender equality means that the the different behavior, aspirations and needs of women and men are considered, valued and favored equally. That their rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female."

Oh I get it. Really, I do. But why can't people just get their heads out of their asses? Honestly. A 9 year girl could give a shit about singing in a boys choir. Her mother is behind that. A 9 year girl is definitely not prepared for the hell an all boys choir would put her through. Mean mom. I just don't understand all the people who want to be treated the same as everybody else on one hand but special on the other hand. 

Genders are NOT EQUAL! Physically, we're a lot different! Mentally we're a lot different too - just ask any man or woman! Our needs are different. Stop acting like they aren't. Oy. Why are there always those people who want to act like a 15 year old who wants to argue semantics?

We have several same sex couples where I work and their domestic partner is covered under their health insurance. But a heterosexual couple that lives together can't provide health insurance for their partner. That's not equality. If common sense were alive and well, none of these things would be an issue.

sigh

Apples

How many varieties of apples do you suppose there are? Ten? Twenty? Wouldn't you be surprised to learn that there are over a 100 apple varieties grown in the US?!?!?! I was surprised. Maybe it's just because I'm not a big fruit eater? Really, did you know that there were so many? When I was a kid, there were red apples and green apples. That was pretty much it.

Now there are; McIntosh, Fuji, Red Delicious, Gala, Crispin, Braeburn, Honey Crisp, Jonagold, Granny Smith, Empire, Golden Delicious, Cameo, Jazz, Macoun, Ambrosia, Paula Red, Cripps Pink, Cortland, Liberty, Rome, Pink Pearl, Arkansas Black, Winesap, Northern Spy, Melba, Opal, Sweet Tango, Goldspur and tons more!

Yesterday I bought a lemonade apple. Just because. It wasn't lemony. But it was a little tart and very crisp. Maybe I could eat more apples.

what your lawmakers earn to boss you around

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Way to go New Hampshire!!!  ...and Connecticut, Rhode Island, Arizonza and Maine!

SHAME ON YOU CALIFORNIA!!! ...and Montana!! and Pennsylvania, Hawaii, Michigan, New York and Kansas. You've got some nerve. 

And don't let those Alaskans fool you with their $254 a day per diem!

Reality

The other night when we were surfing the TV channels, I noticed something. As some of you already know, I'm not really that observant about some things, like TV...so don't laugh. Have you ever noticed how many reality tv shows there are?? Holy WOW. Tons and tons of them!!
It's not just Survivor and Amazing Race or the Kardashians anymore. I think the majority of television is reality tv. Why is that? It's cheaper to film? Because some reality tv shows, in my opinion, are totally scripted. Anyway, I looked for a list of them and it's pretty incredible;

American Ninja Warriors
Ax Men
The Bachelor and all of its spinoffs
All those "Real Housewife" shows
A few tattoo shows
Talent shows galore - singing, dancing, comedy...
Big Brother
Several shows about hoarders
Many house renovation/flipping shows
Tons of cooking shows, not the ones w/real chefs either
A myriad of dancing shows
Shows about fat people and little people and people with too many kids and people who live is swamps!
Ghost hunters
Food trucks, logging trucks, ice road truckers...
Naked and afraid (not joking)
Shows about what to wear and what not to wear
Courtroom shows
It's amazing!! No wonder I don't think there's ever anything on tv!

things that are becoming obsolete...

You know I love these articles. Money Talks says these things will soon be obsolete;

1. Cash -  it kind of is already but I think it's still going to be a long time before it goes away
2. Remote controls - their argument was because of apps on your phone, remotes will become obsolete. But...doesn't that mean that your phone will become the remote control? hmmm
3. Car keys - I totally buy this one! Having a new car that doesn't have a key is pretty awesome. Also, we don't have a front door key. We have a keypad instead. Again, awesome!
4. Hotel room keys - is there still such a thing? Oh wait, we stayed in a motel recently that had an actual key. It was weird.
5. House keys - see #3
6. Manual transmission cars - did you know that only 4% of all 2018 car sales were stick shifts?!
7. College textbooks - Absolutely! In this digital age, save a tree, your back & shoulders and tons of money.
8. Mail collection boxes - Nooooo! I need a place to drop my cards in! Oh wait...
9. Shopping malls - I don't know what to think about this one. My mom and I were just in the mall not too long ago. Granted, it didn't look like the 'hang-out' it used to be but there were still a lot of people there.
10. Plastic bags - I'm feeling better about this one. The more I have to dispose of those, the more my own tote bags appeal to me.
11. Straws - well, they jumped on the bandwagon to add this to the list. Maybe there should be a bigger push for "don't be a litterbug" instead of banning trash.
12. Checks - I'm still on the same box of checks I bought 11 years ago. Yeah, I'm in.
13. Desktop computers - I guess it depends; at work? no way. At home? yep. I see laptops everywhere.
14. Print catalogs - what? I guess these people don't check their own mailboxes in October and November!! I LOVE wish books!!!
15. GPS devices - so, this one is misleading. I'll have to call bullshit on this one.
16. Print magazines - nope. NO WAY advertisers will let this go.
17. Alarm clocks - but does everyone have a smart phone?? come on.
18. Landlines - I sure don't miss ours!
19. CD's - I was just talking about this...isn't it funny that my new high tech car still comes with a CD player?!
20. DVD's - I don't know. I have quite a few 'digital' movies but again, not everyone has Netflix or Amazon Prime. I don't buy this.

where you pee

Some public bathrooms are so gross. And some of them, that you expect to be disgusting, aren't bad at all. At home, even if you're bathroom isn't spotless (and let's be honest) at least you know it's only your germs. 

At work, my expectations have always been that our bathrooms should be pretty clean. I mean, do you actually want your co-workers to know that they work with a lazy pig?! So I'm always surprised at how gross our bathrooms are sometimes. Seriously!!! It's shameful to think about all the women I work with that are slobs. Ewwwww. 
Now that I've said though, it's not true on every floor. Isn't that funny? Our office is 3 floors.  The 3rd floor is where most of the high paid, top dogs are. I worked up there for a few years. Our bathrooms were never gross. Now I work on the 1st floor, with all the lower paid worker bees. Our bathrooms are gross. It's shameful. But isn't it incredibly interesting to think that just because you make less money, you're a lazy pig?? Does your salary equate to cleanliness?? That's so crazy. 

don't do drugs...

That's all

Pets

I saw this story a couple months ago about a pet store burglary. The thieves stole $44,000. worth of puppies!!! That's like the whole store, right?? Nope. They stole FIVE dogs. I can do that math. That's over 8 thousand dollars per dog. It turned out that they were Bulldogs. Who cares. Why in the hell does ANY dog cost 8 thousand dollars???!!!! I just don't get it. Why is a pure bred dog so expensive? And why are "designer" dogs so expensive?? They're just mutts! Why is it so expensive to own a dog these days? When I was a kid, your dog got a rabies shot and that was it. And you fed them all sorts of crap. Nobody got their dogs teeth cleaned. Nobody gave their dogs heart-worm protection. Maybe dogs live longer now because of those things, but still. $300 to have their teeth cleaned? But I digress... over 8 thousand dollars for a dog??? A Bulldog???? I mean, Bulldogs are cute and all but they come with a ton of health problems right off the bat! Geeshh. Us humans sure love our furry friends don't we? But to pay that kind of money for  for a pet just seems so wrong. Our next dog is coming from the pound. I want to love a dog that someone else didn't. Come on people, stop paying so much for love! 

 

   

   

song lyrics

Do you have favorites lines from songs? I love some songs just because there's a chorus or 1 line in it that I love.

For instance, I love the song We Own The Night by Lady Antebellum because of this line;
We woke under a blanket, all tangled up in skin.

Or Kieth Urban's Blue, for this line; If I were a painter I wouldn't change you I would just paint you brighter.

Cat Stevens Father and Son, from the moment I could talk, I was ordered to listen.

John Lennon, Imagine, you may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one

From I hope You Dance, by Lee Ann Womack, When you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance

I love The Air That I Breath by The Hollies for this line;
Sometimes all I need is the air that I breath and to love you.

I bet you're thinking of some right now!