Tuesday, August 21, 2018

free, free, free!

I have/had $200 free Amazon gift cards! I love Amazon. I love free Amazon gift cards. I was going to buy something responsible...that wouldn't end up at Goodwill or the Salvation Army. I was going to. I had every intention. But then I said, screw it! and bought something completely frivolous, useless and dumb. I almost felt bad. I got over it though. 

Because I love me some Funko Pop and Moana is my all time favorite Disney movie, I bought these;

   
   

Yes, yes I did. But, I didn't spend all my $$ :-)  Only 1/2. So I can use the rest on crazy kitchen gadgets!!! Oh yeah, like these totally cool lids!

or this completly awesome snap on strainer!!!

Or this amazing thing! I don't even know what I would do with it but I want it!!

Oh wait, I might already own this. OK, maybe this neat breakfast sandwich maker instead;


It's so fun!!!!

Thursday, August 16, 2018

cha cha changes...

Everything changes. Everything. The planet, morals, ideas, culture, faith, religion, education, everything.

My fella and I had a conversation about that this morning. It started because of a local story about a Catholic high-school's employee, who married her same sex partner four years ago. She kept it from the school because, well, it's a Catholic school and apparently it's in her contract not to be immoral? Anyway, the school board found out and suspended her. Now it's national news. First of all, it's a Catholic school. That anybody is surprised by this seems kinda dumb. Beyond that though, how do you feel about that? Would you care if your kid was being taught or counseled by a homosexual? Is your decision based on how you were raised or what you were taught to believe? Do you hold on strongly to the ideas/principles that you were taught as a kid?

Well, I'll be honest...I was raised as a Catholic. I went to a Catholic school that was actually part of a church, for 3rd, 4th and part of 5th grade. So for me, I think the whole lgbt thing goes against the bible. I guess I hold on to that because of my background. But...who am I to judge? I mean, I've never just automatically not liked someone because they were gay. Yes, I'll say that it makes me uncomfortable to see 2 men kissing, but again, that's just something I hold on to. But I don't hate them for it. That would feel wrong to me. I wonder how the iGeneration feels about that? More tolerant than Boomers, for sure. Is that a problem? Oh wait, that's a different discussion :-)

I try not to hold on too strongly to ideas. I like to think that even though I believe or don't believe something, I can still be open to the possibilities. There was a time when people thought the world was flat. As little as 50 years ago, doctors thought that men and women needed the same treatment. Now there are entire hospitals dedicated to the treatment of women. In 1960, only 1/3 of doctors thought smoking was bad for you. Everything changes. All the time.

Thursday, August 9, 2018

cutting the cord

Did you know that so far this year, every minutes, 6 people ditched cable TV. That's 8640 people a day! And not unlike the last presidential election, the losing team is blaming everyone else. Even people on their own team!

Like everything though, it was just simply greed that did the cable industry in. The biggest pointed finger though is aimed at Netflix. I think that in the beginning, they didn't take Netflix seriously. Then, when they split the company into 2 parts, DVD rentals and Streaming, the cable industry and the business world in general, was sure that would lead to the demise of Netflix. Consumers would not tolerate that! Well, we did! And it's awesome! No more commercials, no more high costs, who cares about sports! Then came Sling TV and Hulu. Now you could watch your favorite TV shows the next day! Ahhhhh. Life if good. On top of all that, now with HD TV, you can just buy an antennae and get all the local channels for free! 

Cable should've stood up to the networks a long time ago. For instance, Viacom owns MTV. So if Time Warner wants to add MTV to it's lineup, Viacom says ok, but you also have to carry MTV2 VH1, CMT, Comedy Central, BET, Spike, Nickelodeon (all 5 of them) and TV Land. Time Warner says, no, we just want MTV. Viacom says, no deal. So Time Warner caves is because their customers want MTV. Now the customer has to pay for 15 channels just to get ONE. That's why there are 500 channels on TV and only 30 that you watch! It's so dumb. The consumer was bound to get fed up with that.

you know who the BIGGEST loser is though!?!?!? The news media!!! Because if people are ditching cable, they're ditching MSNBC, CNN, FOX, and all the rest! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I love that!!!!

Thursday, August 2, 2018

I'm a man!!

OMG this is the funniest thing ever!! I can't stop laughing about it!!!

There's link on facebook where you can see what you'd like as the opposite sex. Of course I had to do it. What CRACKED ME UP was, I'm a little old man!!!! You know, because I'm an old lady!!!! hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!

Seriously! Laughing my head off!!! It's gonna crack me up all year!!



Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Random rants

Last year sometime, I posted this comment on Facebook, "racism exists mostly in the media."
Talk about a hot button! I still believe that's true. Oh, and look!!!! Here is an article about just such a thing!!!




Umm, yeah. Pay attention people.

This is an article I just read the other day because someone brought it up...It's all about the cost of school supplies these days. I was just flabbergasted at how much teachers spend, of the own money!! Oh, and that students use an average of 45 pencils a year. Seriously? Are they eating them? dang.  




I remember when we had 2 in high-school at the same time. I hated August. It was more expensive than Christmas! Book fees, lab fees, parking, pictures, yearbooks, class rings, equipment...good grief! And that was 16/17 YEARS ago! Now there's even more! It's just crazy.

And last...tomorrow is the FIRST DAY OF AUGUST! sigh. I sear it was just June.

Wednesday, July 18, 2018

food!

Look at how fun this is! It's a list of the most searched for food dish, in every state. It says a lot about the state :-)



Also, read this article. It's about how bogus vitamins are. Not the first time I've heard that but it's still interesting. We should talk more about nutrition in this country, instead of taking vitamins.



Wednesday, July 11, 2018

old movies

Do you watch old movies? Do you like them? What's an "old movie" to you? I like to cruise through the menu for Turner Classic Movies. They have old movies! I watched part of a movie called Reefer Madness, made in 1936. It's the craziest movie!!! You should check it out if you ever get the chance.
The opening Foreword says;
"The motion picture you are about to witness may startle you. It would not have been          possible, otherwise, to sufficiently emphasize the frightful toll of the new drug menace          which is destroying the youth of America in alarmingly-increasing numbers. Marijuana is      that drug - a violent narcotic - an unspeakable scourge - The Real Public Enemy Number One! Its first effect is sudden, violent, uncontrollable laughter; then come dangerous hallucinations - space expands - time slows down, almost stands still...fixed ideas come next, conjuring up monstrous extravagances - followed by emotional disturbances, the total inability to direct thoughts, the loss of all power to resist physical emotions...leading finally to act of shocking violence...ending often in incurable insanity......"

I have definite favorites;
Them! from 1954, about the giant ants
Rebecca from 1940
The Day The Earth Stood Still  from 1951
Forbidden Planet from 1956 and the original, The Body Snatchers.
Gone With The Wind, 1939!!! Man does this movie stand the test of time! Not to mention The Wizard of Oz. Last night, I watched Earthquake, one of the original disaster movies! Oh my gosh, it was so lame. I laughed out loud and I'm pretty sure they didn't mean it to be funny. It is fun to see what's in the movie though - like, cops in uniform drinking in a bar. I guess that was ok in 1974? Funny. And the clothes and hair styles. That always cracks me up. I'm still waiting to see some of the real classics though. Like Spartacus, Singing In The Rain, Rebel Without a Cause, Vertigo or any movie with Marilyn Monroe.

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

regrets

Do you have regrets? As you get older, I hear you have more regrets. Oh, it's that older thing again. I guess I just need to accept/embrace it! I.Am.Old(er). OK. Movin' on...

There's a new study - I love those - that lists the top 50 things people regret, after 50. Ready?

  1. Ending relationships with people you loved
  2. Not being more adventurous
  3. Wasting time hating you body
  4. Trying to live up to your parents' expectations
  5. Not eating healthier when you were younger
  6. Taking life too seriously
  7. Not traveling more
  8. Holding on to grudges
  9. Not standing up for yourslf
  10. Worrying about other people's opinons
  11. Prioritizing practicality over fun
  12. Not attending to your health
  13. Quitting school
  14. Not accomplishing more
  15. working too much
  16. Not telling people you love them
  17. Ignoring your instincts
  18. Being an inattentive partner (put your phone down)
  19. Not taking vacations
  20. Getting divorced (23% of women and 39% of men have regrets)
  21. Letting friendships fizzle out
  22. Missing out on the little moments
  23. Not saving more
  24. Not trying to land that dream job
  25. Being unkind
  26. Not doing more for others
  27. Not seeing someone before they died
  28. Not appreciating your youth
  29. Not being more romantic
  30. Muting your real personality (you know, trying to be someone you're not)
  31. Not spending more time with your kids
  32. Missing out on investment opportunities
  33. Not admitting your feelings for someone
  34. Being ungrateful
  35. Not asking that person out
  36. Setting aside your passions
  37. Not being more present (put your phone down)
  38. Not appreciating our body
  39. Spending too much time worrying
  40. Being inattentive to your kids (put your phone down)
  41. Not getting to know people better
  42. Letting the passion die
  43. Not standing up for other people
  44. Spending too little time with your parents
  45. Acting your age
  46. Forcing your opinions on our children
  47. Not being more spontaneous
  48. Not apologizing more
  49. Ignoring your personal happiness
  50. Not leaving a legacy
I am happily surprised to say, I don't have too many regrets. Out of those 50, there are only 4 or 5 things that I feel I haven't done. But, I don't necessarily regret it. Does that make sense? Like #49. I've ignored my own happiness. But I don't regret that because I did it to make other people happy. That's not really a bad thing. See what I mean? And by the time you're 50, you still have lots of years left to pay attention to your own happiness and passions. I don't think you should regret some of these.

Friday, June 22, 2018

how do you 'feel'

Are you sympathetic or empathetic?

Do you sympathize with people or empathize for them?

Sympathy or empathy?

Empathy is understanding how others feel. You don't have to care about their predicament or feel sympathy for them to understand their plight. 
Sympathy is feeling sorry for someone else. Empathy would help you feel sympathy, but you may not understand their feelings.

Sympathy is feeling compassion, sorrow, or pity for the hardships that another person encounters, while empathy is putting yourself in the shoes of another.



I stopped watching the news for many reasons. But the catalyst was the day I read a couple stories in the paper...one was about a child who died in a hot car after his parent had forgotten about him. All I could think about was his pain and fear. No one heard his screams and crying. He was completely alone, left to die. OMG! 
The other was one of those sidebar dog rescue stories. Here was dog, laying 1/2 off a curb, clearly starving and dying, while people just walked by. A rescue group came by and when they approached the dog, he slowly, with all his might, wagged his tail. Just the thought of human kindness, even in his misery, made him happy. OMG! 
By the time I finished that story, I was in tears. Actually sobbing. I felt awful. 

The next day, Saturday, I told my fella I had to take a drive. Somewhere out in the boonies where there weren't any people and just stream music in the car so I didn't' have to hear the news or commercials. I felt like I really just needed a minute to detach from the world. We had a lovely day. And for the rest of the weekend, we listened to music and watched a couple really cheesy movies. It was good. 

Since then I've stayed away from TV news almost completely. After a couple weeks, I started looking at headlines, online. Sometimes I'll read an article. I've had to stop doing that again. It's too heartbreaking. I can't take it. I finally figured out why...I have empathy. Not necessarily a bad thing, but it can be daunting.



Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Indiana

At work, I have commandeered all the bulletin boards in the main hall. There are 4 of them, each one is 3 ft. x 4 ft. Previously, they were filled with stupid crap that nobody cared about or grade school decorations. It drove me nuts! 
Now, one of the of the boards has actual, useful information on it. Things like, big events downtown that are going to effect traffic when you leave; how your time off is accrued; birthdays this month; things that are happening this month; retirement notices; the cafeteria menu this week, State holidays, etc. 
One board is filled with "company" information. Things like, who to contact for what, in HR; the mission statement; pertinent information about specific departments. 
One board is filled with numbers...metrics, quality, and shout outs to staff that have met their goals. 
The 4th one, I had removed. I replaced it with a smaller cork board and a white board. On the white board, I write positive messages. You know how I am :-) This month though, I've been putting things about Indiana on it. Like Indiana trivia. There are A LOT of things people didn't know! 
For instance;
The first train robbery in the nation, happened here.
Indiana is home to the first "theme park" in the country.
Colonel Sanders was actually from Indiana.
The last concert Elvis performed was in Indianapolis.
Raggedy Ann dolls were created by woman in Indiana.
Van Camp pork and beans was created by Indianapolis grocer, Gilbert Van Camp.
The very first professional baseball game was played here, in Fort Wayne, Indiana.
14 State Capitols, the Empire State bldg, Rockefeller Center, the Pentagon and many others, were built with Indiana limestone.
The Coca Cola bottle was designed by a glass company in Indiana.
The inventor of the first real gasoline pump was Syvanus F. Bower, from Indiana.
Lewis and Clark started their expedition from Fort Vincennes, which later became part of the state of Indiana. 
It turns out, there IS more than corn in Indiana!!

Thursday, May 17, 2018

more tax greed!

Have you ever wondered what the tax rate is in other countries? Well I have!

First off, if you ever wanted to live in Denmark, forget it!! Switzerland is the place to be!

Denmark
Practical tax rate: 56%
Average pretax salary: $64,310
Average post-tax salary: $28,227
Sweden
Practical tax rate: 52%
Average pretax salary: $46,804
Average post-tax salary: $22,410
Belgium
Practical tax rate: 45%
Average pretax salary: $47,674
Average post-tax salary: $26,221
Germany
Practical tax rate: 30%
Average pretax salary: $42,369
Average post-tax salary: $29,658
Canada
Practical tax rate: 28%
Average pretax salary: $48,688
Average post-tax salary: $35,299
Ireland
Practical tax rate: 25%
Average pretax salary: $56,787
Average post-tax salary: $42,322
Greece
Practical tax rate: 22%
Average pretax salary: $19,189
Average post-tax salary: $14,967
Australia
Practical tax rate: 21%
Average pretax salary: $46,804
Average post-tax salary: $22,410
New Zealnad
Practical tax rate: 19%
Average pretax salary: $44,636
Average post-tax salary: $36,283
United States
Practical tax rate: 18% (but our corporate tax is 35%!)
Average pretax salary: $64,154
Average post-tax salary: $52,344
Russia
Practical tax rate: 13%
Average pretax salary: $9,720
Average post-tax salary: $8,456
United Kingdom
Practical tax rate: 13%
Average pretax salary: $46,252
Average post-tax salary: $40,169
Mexico
Practical tax rate: 13%
Average pretax salary: $9,812
Average post-tax salary: $8,537
China
Practical tax rate: 12%
Average pretax salary: $8,250
Average post-tax salary: $7,247
Japan
Practical tax rate: 10%
Average pretax salary: $39,089
Average post-tax salary: $35,279
Switzerland
Practical tax rate: 2%
Average pretax salary: $85,718
Average post-tax salary: $84,006
India
Practical tax rate: %
Average pretax salary: $1,670
Average post-tax salary: $1,670

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

taxing greed


Did you know, the median home price in Seattle is $777,000? I read that last week when I read an article about Seattle wanting to impose a "head tax" on big companies. Seattle has a lot of problems. More than they're saying, that's for sure. Anyway, yesterday I saw this followup article and I was just flabbergasted! I'm not 100% pro Amazon and I don't even drink Starbucks, but this seems wrong. It says that the city spent $68 million on homeless services last year. Now they're going to get an additional $48 million. But nobody is asking what the plan is. They say there are 10,000 homeless people in Seattle. I see the biggest problem...greed. The city could have put a cap on rent years ago. But they didn't I bet, because they didn't want tell someone how to run their business or how much they could make. Greed. Greed. Greed. They'll just tax them instead!
Seattle OKs tax on companies like Amazon to help homeless

PHUONG LE

    
PUBLISHED: MAY 15TH, 2018 - 8:51AM (EDT)
SEATTLE (AP) — Seattle's largest businesses such as Amazon and Starbucks will have to pay a new tax to help fund homeless services and affordable housing under a measure approved by city leaders.
The City Council unanimously passed a compromise plan Monday that taxes businesses making at least $20 million in gross revenues about $275 per full-time worker each year — lower than the $500 per worker initially proposed. The so-called "head tax" would raise roughly $48 million a year to build new affordable housing units and provide emergency homeless services.
The debate over who should pay to solve a housing crisis exacerbated by Seattle's rapid economic growth comes after weeks of tense exchanges, raucous meetings and a threat by Amazon, the city's largest employer, to stop construction planning on a 17-story building near its hometown headquarters.
Amazon, Starbucks and business groups sharply criticized the council's decision after Monday's vote. They called it a tax on jobs and questioned whether city officials were spending current resources effectively. One state Republican leader said he would seek legislation next year to make clear that a city tax on employees, wages or hours is illegal.
Seattle-based Starbucks had harsh words for its hometown leaders. It accused the city of spending without accountability while ignoring that hundreds of children sleep outside.
"If they cannot provide a warm meal and safe bed to a 5-year-old child, no one believes they will be able to make housing affordable or address opiate addiction," Starbucks' John Kelly said in a statement.
But worker and church groups and others cheered the tax as a step toward building badly needed affordable housing in an affluent city where the income gap continues to widen and lower-income workers are being priced out.
"People are dying on the doorsteps of prosperity. This is the richest city in the state and in a state that has the most regressive tax system in the country," said councilmember Teresa Mosqueda, who wanted a larger tax but called the compromise plan "a down payment" to build housing the city needs.
For Seattle's liberal City Council, the discussion Monday centered not so much on whether there should be a head tax but how big it should be. Four bill sponsors initially pitched a tax of $500 per full-time employee a year but a compromise proposal emerged over weekend after they couldn't muster the six votes needed to override a potential veto by Mayor Jenny Durkan.
Councilmember Lisa Herbold, a bill sponsor, said the revenue isn't enough to fully address the problem given the city's dire needs and human suffering but it was "the strongest proposal" they could put forward given the veto threat.
Proponents of the tax say too many people are suffering on the streets, and while city-funded programs found homes for 3,400 people last year, the problem deepens. The Seattle region had the third-highest number of homeless people in the U.S. and saw 169 homeless deaths last year. The city spent $68 million on homelessness last year and plans to spend even more this year. The tax will provide additional revenue.
"This legislation will help us address our homelessness crisis without jeopardizing critical jobs," Durkan said in a statement.
Other cities have implemented similar taxes, but critics say Seattle's tax could threaten the booming local economy and drive away jobs.
Nearly 600 large employers — roughly 3 percent — would pay the tax starting in 2019. Amazon, the city's largest employer with 45,000 workers, would take the biggest hit.
Amazon Vice President Drew Herdener said in a statement Monday that the company was disappointed.
While Amazon has resumed construction planning on the downtown building, he said "we remain apprehensive about the future created by the council's hostile approach and rhetoric toward larger businesses, which forces us to question our growth here."
He noted that city revenues have grown dramatically and that the city "does not have a revenue problem — it has a spending efficiency problem."
Councilmember Lorena Gonzalez shot back that she was "equally disappointed" in Amazon's reaction to the council's vote and said she thinks "their tone in this message that is clearly hostile toward the city council is not what I expect from a business who continues to tell us that they want to be a partner on these issues."
Before the vote, she said the city "has an obligation to take care of the people who are surviving and suffering on our city streets."
Shannon Brown, 55, who has been living a tiny home at a south Seattle homeless encampment, said there's simply not enough housing for the city's poorest people.
"I live in a little shed, but it's better than living in a tent or in a sleeping bag on the street," she said. "There's no away I can afford to live in Seattle. I don't understand why businesses think it's wrong to help."
John Boufford with the International Union of Painters and Allied Trades said he didn't understand the rhetoric against Amazon, which he noted provides good jobs for thousands of people.
"They're driving this economic engine," he said. "I'm confused about why the city of Seattle is fostering an adversarial relationship with businesses in this city."

Monday, May 7, 2018

Happy Monday...

Because it's MY blog! :-)




                            


Friday, May 4, 2018

Cultural Appropriation

What the hell is that anyway? 
I've heard the term before. I never really paid attention to it though. It just seemed like another made up thing for millennials to be angry about. I was more interested in it this week though, when I saw the story about the Utah high school senior who wore a Chinese style dress to her senior prom. 
You can find the story here; 
https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Style/teen-defends-chinese-prom-dress-sparked-cultural-appropriation/story?id=54866211

I read a couple different versions of the story but I still don't get what some people were pissed off about. 

The dictionary says, the act of taking or using things from a culture that is not your own, especially without showing that  you understand or respect this culture:
OK, so I think I understand what the term probably originally meant, but now like everything else it's being used in a haphazard way just to create conflict. I'm pretty sure that originally, cultural appropriation was taking some important/meaningful facet of a particular culture and turning it into something unimportant/common. I can't think of what that would be for me personally though.

Anyway...back to the girl in the dress. I don't think THAT was cultural appropriation. And if that's how we should be made to think about it, then I would say it's cultural appropriation for an African American to dye their hair blonde. If you are not of Polynesian descent and you attend a luau, isn't that cultural appropriation? How about celebrating cinco de mayo if you're not Hispanic? Or wearing a cross if you're not Christian? Or buying a kimono robe if you're not Japanese? Diana Krall is an amazing Jazz singer, but she's white. Shouldn't she find another career? What about food!?!?!?!? If I fix my own Americanized version of tacos, isn't that cultural appropriation? Oy!

Honestly, we don't need to worry about the government taking away our freedoms...we're doing a fine job of it all by ourselves!