Monday, June 30, 2014

Argh!

The last couple of days it seems like there are even more rude/dumb/asshole people than usual. Maybe I’m just becoming less tolerant? I don’t know. I get so sick of bully drivers and drivers that don’t care that they’re breaking the law and inconveniencing others. Most of the time it just irritates me and then I let it go. It’s not really like they’re ruining my day but damnit if I’m not angry longer about it. Humph. 

One day last week, as I walking along the canal at lunch, there was a couple that passed me on bicycles. Up ahead was a large family, taking up the entire sidewalk. As the bicyclist got closer, I expected the group to move over a little so they could pass. Nope. They didn't budge. The bicyclists had to stop and the group walked around them. Seriously? They couldn't move over? What was the point of that? They still had to move to walk around them! That’s just mean spirited. 

And this morning I heard part of a story about the Dodgers fan that was stabbed to death at Giants game…his family wants to sue the Giants for not providing enough security. You know what I’m going to say right? The obvious thing is that two people would be willing kill each other because they support opposing teams. But that the family wants to sue the team for a lack of security? What is wrong with people??? Why do you even need excessive security at a fucking GAME? It’s a sports team, a GAME! Your life and death does NOT depend on the outcome of the GAME? They PLAY a GAME for your entertainment. And you pay big money for that, which is dumb too. I really hate people sometimes.

Every once in awhile, I think when I retire I want to live out in the boonies somewhere where people don’t have icky hearts or spirits.

I wonder if there will even be such place when I’m ready.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Lets just be naked!

Don’t you ever want to be unfettered? Oh, not responsibilities or things like that. I mean, do you ever just hate things on your body? Shoes, jewelry, clothes. My husband said no, that’s a woman thing. I don’t think that’s true. Really? Just recently I’ve had several of those days…I would just prefer not have shoes on, or rings, or earrings, or even hair! Come on, I can’t be one of just a few people in the world that feel like that sometimes!

Friday, June 27, 2014

Flashback Friday

Don’t you roll your eyes at me!

You better watch your tone of voice.

Don’t make me pull this car over.

I said no! Don’t ask me again.

Leave your brother/sister alone.

Is that the best you can do?

Did you do what I asked you to do?

You better not be walking out of the house with that on!

What did you just say?

That attitude has to go.

Did you brush your teeth?

Stop it!

That's gross, go wash your hands.

I am so disappointed in you.

If you keep doing that, your face will freeze like that.

Turn the light on! You’ll go blind.

Try and stay inside the lines.

No, you didn’t finish all your dinner.

If your friends jumped off a cliff, would you?!

Don’t talk back to me!



Do you know, even though I'm well past being a kid, I STILL get some of those?! 

Friday, June 20, 2014

Flashback Friday

2 of my favorite things, shoes and the 70's!







I lived in these all summer!








I loved these



I had these!

 and these!


I had these too!



Thursday, June 19, 2014

MY space

There are more and more people in the world who just don’t respect the concept of personal space. Dammit! What happened to my bubble people!?
Grrrrrrr.
 
I want you to back off when we we’re in line at the store. I was at my least favorite grocery store the other day and there was an old fella behind me, right behind me, that totally stressed me out. I was practically hyperventilating when I finally got away!
 
And I want you to move back when you’re talking to me.  If you’re close enough for me to head butt you, you’re too close.
 
If I’m one of 6 or 7 people on the escalator, don’t stand on the step right behind me! I hate you when you do that! Besides being creepy, you’re invading my bubble.
 
I don’t mind being part of a crowd, except for all the rude folks, but other than that, get away from me!
 
One of my bosses has no regard for personal space. He grew up in a big family. Seriously, I had to tell him last month that it bothers me. I thought he might be a little honked off but he took it ok once I told him I was gonna punch him in the head! No, I’m kidding, I didn’t actually say that out loud :-)
 
Yeah, yeah, I know I have some issues with strangers in my space, but I can’t be the only one!

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

China

Mom and I went to see the only U.S. exhibit this year, of the Terracotta Soldiers from China. Really, really interesting. I didn't know that ALL 8000+ soldiers had been smashed by cave-ins. And that they have had to put them all back together, piece by piece. Talk about tedious work! I also didn't know that they were all painted, originally. They are so old though that the paint starts to flake off within seconds after being exposed to the air. 

Like the King Tut exhibit, I was struck by the craftsmanship of something so old. Even Mom said "they made bronze arrows BC but our native Americans were using wood." 

Take a look at the photos - look at the dates! and if you look closely, you see all the cracks where each soldier was pieced back together; (you can click on the picture to see it larger)






This was only about an inch across.



 Even the plain ol' bells were pretty!





 this is actual body armor. Each piece is made out of STONE! Can you imagine how heavy this was?!!?



this is how they looked when they were new

It's really something to see...if you ever get a chance.



Monday, June 16, 2014

How much $$ do you need to earn to be happy?

Think about that for a minute. What’s your happy number? Do you know? When I was in my teens, I thought that if could ever make $150 a week, I would be set!

In my late 20’s, I would’ve been ecstatic with $20k a year for the rest of my life.

According to a new survey, the average household income that would produce happiness and satisfaction is;

“Nearly a quarter of the people who took the poll, conducted by ORC International, said between $50,000 and $74,999 would work. That calls to mind the results of a Princeton study, which found that emotional well being rose with income, but not much beyond $75,000.
In other words, past a certain income level, your happiness comes from other factors.”

Interesting.

Friday, June 13, 2014

Flashback Friday

You know...since we just celebrated our 25th anniversary this week

This is 1960? That's my Dad

 And this is us in 1981

That's my brother. This picture of him always makes me smile!

We were on our honeymoon, in Mexico. Those suckers were heavy! 

That's my brother's dad and me. I don't think my brother was born yet.

This picture was taken about 11 years ago. This was one of the BEST days we ever had together!


Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Sneaky rats...

...when was it exactly that the media started calling killers/murderers/suspects, "shooters"?
You see what they're doing right? Shooters mean GUNS. Guns are bad. Sneaky rats. The problem with that though is that cops carry guns. They're shooters. Associating guns with shooters is different than associating guns with killers. Sneaky rats.

Friday, June 6, 2014

Flashback Friday

On this day, in 1949, George Orwell's novel of a dystopian future, Nineteen Eighty-four, is published. The novel's all-seeing leader, known as "Big Brother," becomes a universal symbol for intrusive government and oppressive bureaucracy.


Sunday nights, 8:00 pm, CBS. Ask almost any American born in the 1950s or earlier what television program ran in that timeslot on that network, and they'll probably know the answer: The Ed Sullivan Show. For more than two decades, Sullivan's variety show was the premiere television showcase for entertainers of all stripes, including borscht-belt comedians, plate-spinning vaudeville throwbacks and, most significantly, some of the biggest and most current names in rock and roll. Twenty-three years after its 1948 premiere, The Ed Sullivan Show had its final broadcast on this day in 1971.
There was a puppet skit on Ed Sullivan once that I will never forget. The Muppets did a version of it and you can see it on youtube.  It’s called Muppet Show Java

On this day in 1933, eager motorists park their automobiles on the grounds of Park-In Theaters, the first-ever drive-in movie theater, located on Crescent Boulevard in Camden, New Jersey. Park-In Theaters--the term "drive-in" came to be widely used only later--was the brainchild of Richard Hollingshead, a movie fan and a sales manager at his father's company, Whiz Auto Products, in Camden. Reportedly inspired by his mother's struggle to sit comfortably in traditional movie theater seats, Hollingshead came up with the idea of an open-air theater where patrons watched movies in the comfort of their own automobiles. He then experimented in the driveway of his own house with different projection and sound techniques, mounting a 1928 Kodak projector on the hood of his car, pinning a screen to some trees, and placing a radio behind the screen for sound. He also tested ways to guard against rain and other inclement weather, and devised the ideal spacing arrangement for a number of cars so that all would have a view of the screen.
That’s awesome! Who doesn’t have great memories of the drive-in??

Although the term D-Day is used routinely as military lingo for the day an operation or event will take place, for many it is also synonymous with June 6, 1944, the day the Allied powers crossed the English Channel and landed on the beaches of Normandy, France, beginning the liberation of Western Europe from Nazi control during World War II. Within three months, the northern part of France would be freed and the invasion force would be preparing to enter Germany, where they would meet up with Soviet forces moving in from the east.
Although the term D-Day is used routinely as military lingo for the day an operation or event will take place, for many it is also synonymous with June 6, 1944, the day the Allied powers crossed the English Channel and landed on the beaches of Normandy, France, beginning the liberation of Western Europe from Nazi control during World War II. Within three months, the northern part of France would be freed and the invasion force would be preparing to enter Germany, where they would meet up with Soviet forces moving in from the east.
But you knew that, right?

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Here's my grocery PSA...

As the heat index rises, so will your grocery bill this summer.
It’s all thanks to Mother Nature, who has been doing a number on our food supply. Ongoing droughts have bumped up prices for produce and produced a trickle-down effect on meat, since feeding cattle has become costlier. At the same time, a virus has been plaguing pigs across the nation, spiking prices on pork.
It’s not a pretty picture just as barbecue season goes into full swing. But you can still find ways to grocery shop on a budget, especially if you know where to expect the hikes.
So we tapped an agricultural economist to help us figure out which food prices will be on the uptick—and then asked a pair of consumer experts for tips and tricks on how to keep spending down on summer food staples.
Grocery price creep: Which foods will cost more?
If your backyard barbecue normally includes a few T-bones and filet mignons, you may have to rethink picking up those pricey cuts. According to Dr. Christopher Hurt, an agricultural economist at Purdue University, beef supplies are expected to drop 5 percent in 2014—and the number of beef cow herds is at its lowest since 1962. Add to that a five-year drought in the central and southern plains that raised cattle feed prices, and you have a recipe for a costly steak.
“Retail beef prices at grocery stores averaged a record $5.29 per pound in 2013,” Hurt says. “I expect that to be $5.63 a pound this year—nearly a 7 percent increase.”
O.K., so you’ll just throw some hot dogs on the grill instead. Not so fast. A porcine virus has resulted in the deaths of more than 6 million young pigs since it was identified in 2013. “Last year, [pork] prices were $3.64 a pound,” Hurt says. “I expect those to average $3.90 a pound this year, which is also a 7 percent increase.”
In fact, animal proteins overall have seen high cost increases this year. The most recent data for March 2014 shows this category was up 5.1 percent, compared with the same time last year. Eggs, in particular, are seeing a big jump in prices, which were up almost 10 percent, partly due to large export volumes to Mexico—which experienced an avian flu outbreak—that have squeezed the U.S. supply.
Vegetarians aren’t immune from wallet-squeezing this summer, either. An ongoing drought in California is impacting almost every type of fruit and veggie that makes it to your dinner plate.
According to a recently released Arizona State University study, nine types of produce are likely to see a serious price hike this summer: lettuce (at a whopping 34 percent increase!), avocados, broccoli, grapes, tomatoes, melons, peppers, berries and corn. Packaged salads are also expected to jump by 13 percent.
In addition to the drought, the growing season has had a slower start due to cooler and wetter than normal weather. And Hurt suspects this could impact grains and oilseeds, which could affect prices for cereals, baked goods and vegetable oils.
Bottom line for your grocery budget? The USDA expects your food costs will go up 2.8 percent over last year.
How can I keep my grocery bill from ballooning?
Now that you know how much prices might go up, you can still work to keep costs down. These 10 hacks from consumer savings experts can help you have your cake (and pork chops and berries) and eat it too.
1. Make Wednesday your food shopping night. Roughly half of retailers update their sales circulars for the upcoming week on Wednesdays, says Gord Crowson, senior vice president at MyGroceryDeals.com. And if you shop on Wednesday, most of the items on sale will be in stock. Sometimes the sales are even posted a day earlier, he adds, so you can do your homework and prepare your list in advance.
Shopping at night also gives you the added bonus of reduced prices on perishables. Prices tend to drop a few hours before closing, so stores can move product quickly.
“These items are perfectly good, as long as you are going to eat them soon or freeze them,” Crowson says. Savings of 50 percent or more are the norm, so you could score a sweet discount on fruit, veggies, meat, seafood and fresh bakery items.
2. Stock up during deep-discount periods. For meat, look for manager markdowns, suggests consumer savings expert Andrea Woroch, and then buy a lot and freeze what you don’t plan to cook right away. According to the USDA, meat can stay in the freezer for up to 12 months. Just make sure to cut it into smaller pieces and then individually wrap them, so you don’t have to defrost a whole package at once.
For other foods, if you missed a sale, keep an eye out for another retailer that’s having a sale on the same item the following week, suggests Crowson, explaining that temporary price reductions are offered by manufacturers to all retailers in the same area, typically on a monthly basis. Each retailer then decides which week to run the sale.
3. Forgo the packaging. The more precut or prepackaged fresh meat and veggies are, the more it’s adding to your cost, says Woroch. Fresh meat precut into smaller portions is about 60 percent costlier than buying larger slabs; precut fresh fruits and veggies are 60 percent more expensive than buying them whole.
4. Know when not to shop organic. You pay a premium for that label, but some produce has built-in “protection,” which means you don’t have to go the organic route if you’re worried about pesticides. Bananas, avocado and pineapple—thanks to their thick, tough skins—fall into this group, notes Woroch. Check out the Environmental Working Group’s Clean 15 for more products you can pass over in the organic aisle.
5. Buy the whole cow. If you really want to go whole hog on your beef, consider “cowpooling”—going in with friends or neighbors on an entire animal from a local farm and sharing the butchered cuts of meat. Staying local and buying “in bulk” gives you access to higher quality at lower prices.
6. DIY your produce. The great thing about fruits and veggies is that you can always grow your own. Start small with herbs, suggests Woroch, and don’t let space hold you back. Do you lack the backyard real estate? Vegetables like lettuce, tomatoes, summer squash, eggplant and peppers can just as easily be grown in containers or window boxes.
7. Buy in season. “This allows for savings [because you’re purchasing when] products are typically more plentiful and available,” Crowson says. A juicy tip: If you’re hitting up farmers’ markets for locally grown produce, try going toward the end of the day. “[Vendors] don’t want to have to pack the items up and haul them back to the farm,” he adds.
8. Join community-supported agriculture (CSA) groups. “Basically, you buy a share in a local farm’s annual crops and receive boxes containing any combination of fruits, vegetables, eggs, meats, baked goods, herbs, cheese or flowers,” Woroch explains. Some CSAs even set up payment plans, so clients don’t have to shell out for their entire share at once. “Community supported agriculture ensures you eat nothing but the freshest food, while saving a surprising amount of money,” she adds.
9. Consider frozen foods. “Frozen fruits and veggies are an economical way to get your nutrients during any season,” Woroch says. And since produce is flash-frozen at its peak ripeness and nutrient content, there’s no need to worry about lack of flavor or healthfulness. For an even better deal, Woroch suggests opting for store brands, as well as shopping at wholesalers like Costco.
10. Buy in bulk. Speaking of Costco, if you have storage space and carefully watch those “best before” dates, says Crowson, buying in bulk is a great way to save. Meat and seafood, in particular, tends to cost less per pound when bought in big quantities.
That said, don’t just fill your cupboards and freezer with items you’ll forget about or get sick of eating. “The savings evaporate,” Crowson says, “when you have to throw out product because it’s past its expiry date.”




Tuesday, June 3, 2014

things change...

The times they are a changin’

This first article was so interesting. I hadn’t really thought about how it this way.


But then I saw on the news the other morning that 21.6 MILLION millennials still live at home. Whoa.
I didn’t really listen to the story so I don’t know if they took into account that perhaps some of them were going to school and living at home or if they had jobs or if they were just mooching off their parent(s).

Then I saw this article on FB. It’s much, much longer and you can read it all by clicking on the title if you like to read. Below is gist of it.

The Music Business Today

THE TRANSITION
We’re in the midst of the greatest transition in the music business since the Beatles, and I’m not talking about files to streaming, ownership to rental, but the transition from baby boomers to the younger generation. Voices change. Arthritis sets in. In other words, no one lives forever, and no one can do it forever. Sure, you might see ancient warriors still treading the boards, but so many of your favorite classic acts are not only over sixty, they’re seventy. In other words, if you want to see the Stones, go now, this is truly the last time.
And what this means is the legacy of the business is being wiped out, everything boomers were married to will be gone. Traditional radio, physical product, getting a good seat at a fair price, the music and everything attendant to it will be wiped out and we’ll end up with a clean slate. So, if you’re waiting for the past to come back, sayonara!
FREQUENCY
There’s been a big change in music in the last ten years. Used to be an act put out new music every three to five years. If you do that now, unless you’re Justin Timberlake, you’re forgotten. Album cycles have sped up. Acts put covers and live material on YouTube.
In other words, we are in an era of creation as opposed to marketing. It’s an artist’s wet dream. You have a ready and willing audience that wants to eat up everything you have to say. Feed them. Constantly. Singles may take longer than ever to happen on radio, but if you don’t think radio is losing its influence, you’re in it.
Furthermore, the tail of almost anything is not very long. Is anybody listening to “Gangnam Style” now? “Blurred Lines”? Beyonce’s latest? Baby boomer thinking is that you make an impact and last. Youngster thinking is what have you done for me lately? If you haven’t done anything lately, you’re on the way to extinction.

I’m a Boomer. But I don’t mind the change. I know how to stream movies and music. We have Wi-Fi and I can watch Netflix through our Play Station. I have a tablet and a Smartphone. I don’t use everything my phone can do, but I’m fairly certain I could if I wanted to. Like the generation before me, I ponder the decline of our youth’s morals. All of that being said, I can still roll with it. I’m not at all like my husband, who balks at everything new. I don’t grumble about today’s fashions. I don’t cuss about the way pop culture controls everything. If there were kids in our neighborhood, I wouldn’t the old fart yelling at them to get off my lawn! The world is changing, that’s just the way it is. I don’t like all the changes but they don’t ruin my day.


http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bobdylan/thetimestheyareachangin.html

Monday, June 2, 2014

Salt!

As anyone who knows me can attest, I am a lover of salt. No, really, I LOVE salt. When I have French fries, I make a pile of salt on my plate so I can dip my fries in it. Imagine my delight when I discovered that back in the day, they had salt dips!!!! A fancy table setting in the 1800’s might look like this;

This isn’t really a vintage photo but see that tiny little bowl at the top of the place setting, next to the pepper? That’s a salt dip.

OK, so they didn’t actually dip their food in their salt, like I do. But still, that’s so awesome. Anyway, I have one that was given to me years ago but it’s missing the little spoon, (which is fine). I think it’s so neat. My co-worker just got back from vacationing in Florida. She likes to prowl antique stores. She brought me a salt dip (cellar) she found at a little store in St. Could! How cool is that?! Now that I have a couple of them, I’ve decided I should collect them. They come in so many shapes and styles!






So if you ever happen to be out antiquing and you see a salt dip…